I found this activity on-line and was excited to use it in class during the 3rd week of the ICC class. The focus of the week is to look at other cultures and how we might encounter and communicate with them. The game was hilarious to watch, and appealed greatly to my slightly malicious nature. Why? Well, I'll tell you about the game.
You give each group of students (4-6) an altered deck of cards, containing the aces, and only the 2 through 7 cards of each suit. You then give them a set of rules and instructions and tell them to learn the rules together in their groups. The game is simple, each hand just goes around once, the student who has the highest number card in the suit that is originally played is the winner. For example, if I put down a 3 of spades, then you should put down your 5 of spades, and everyone else should put down spades as well. The highest spade wins. Except there is a "trump" card- that is, one entire suit is a trump. For example, diamonds may be the trump cards, so if I lay down any diamond it will win the hand. But, somebody can come along and trump my trump if they have a diamond of a higher number. When you win a hand, you get all of the cards, and the next hand is played.
After the groups got comfortable playing the games, there was laughter and general happiness at playing a game; as opposed to reading theory from Edward T. Hall. Once they were really comfy, I told them that there was going to be a tournament, and that the winners and second place, third place, etc. would play each other at a table after the first round of the tournament. The new rule that I added was that now everyone has to be silent when they are playing. So the card playing resumed, this time in relative silence, perforated by outbursts of laughter, frustration, and beating on tables.
After a few rounds the winners and places are established and students change tables and are with students from different groups. Here's the kicker: all of the rules from group to group have been slightly modified so that they are all different in some very important way- like aces are high or low depending on your rules, or diamonds or spades are trumps. Very early on, once the cards are shuffled and dealt, the chaos begins! Students are reaching for hands they've obviously won only to find them quickly grabbed up by another player, or somebody inexplicably throws down a spade when you are playing hearts (and the trump is diamonds). Arguments are mounting, yet they are under strict instruction to remain silent. Pretty soon, they try and appeal to me to referee something, but I just hold up my hands, trying to conceal my inner jubilant joy at seeing the students so helplessly frustrated! I walk around looking as innocent and ignorant as possible, as the exasperation, the frustration, the leaping across tables, the slamming of fists, the sighs of surrender, the mumbling and pointing at cards, and general pandemonium takes hold.
Alas, eventually things start to settle down. Some groups give up and stop playing, just staring at their tables. Other groups abandon the game completely and make a new game, somehow, silently. Still other groups negotiate through gestures and fall on a new establishment of rules for the same game. When the games finished, I award the winners with chocolate, and send them on a break.
Now, the crazy thing about this game is that it is not just entertaining for the teacher. Just seeing students struggle, get flustered, and lose their minds without talking....well, that would make the whole exercise worth it by itself. But, amazingly, there is some deep learning opportunities here as well.
So, when they came back from the break, there were three journal reflection questions on the board:
What happened during the game?
What was your reaction when playing with a new group?
How was this game like intercultural communication?
I then had them reflect silently and write for ten minutes in the journal before coming together in small groups to discuss their answers. Finally, we shared our answers with the big group.
The first question gets students thinking about what exactly went wrong. Some understand that the rules were different. Others might think that the rules were interpreted differently, and therefore they had the "right" interpretation and were frustrated that others could goof it up so bad. Others think that some students were trying to cheat. Others felt like their peers were hopeless doofbags who couldn't do anything right. But most in my case realized at some point that the rules were different, and that I, innocent me, was the master duper.
The second question gets students to reflect on how they reacted. Did they force their rules on the others. Were they adamant that they were right and others were wrong? Or were they passive. Did they just give up and go with the flow? Or did they work to negotiate with their peers, as hard as it might be, through wild gesturing and grunting? The answers might be quite telling!
The third question gets them to think about how we are cultural beings and how we learn one set of "rules"- either explicit or implicit, through our home cultures. When we enter a new culture we inevitably carry these rules with us, and often can become perplexed, frustrated, exasperated, upset, even angry when these rules seem to mean nothing to the people in the new context. In Korea, for example, the unspoken rule that we say "Excuse me." when we bump into people is usually not expected and thus is forgone. This may have a lot to do with limited space, closer allowances for proximity, and the sheer frequency of bumping into people (believe me, it happens ALL the time). Whatever the reason is, it is not in the rule-book of the culture here to utter an apology every time you bump into someone. In the U.S. however, not uttering a quick "excuse me" can win you a whole bouquet of four letter nouns and adjectives, and maybe the added bonus of a broken nose. I have tried and tried to undo this learning while here, and 99.9% of the time my thoughts are pure after some ajumma bumps me out of the way on her straight-arrow-don't care-who's-in-the-way-route to the empty seat on the subway. I'm not perfectly there yet, but one day, God willing, I'll be cured of slandering little old ladies with a slew of insults that would make hardened criminals blush, all in my mind of course. Anyways, we learn that there are variations on how we do this life thing from culture to culture. Forcing our own rules on people in the cultural context is both futile and unhealthy. Being frustrated and confused is normal and healthy and should be a starting point for negotiating, learning, understanding, and respecting the rules of the new group. One of the students said humility is needed when entering a new culture. Another said that we have to learn the ideas and rules of a new culture to get along with them. Yet another said that through negotiation and communicating harmony could be achieved, just as in the game. My heart was beaming with pride.
If you are an edumacator this activity is indispensable. Rarely does the joy of torturing students, fun, and real learning blend so perfectly together in such a delightful cornucopia of pedagogical goodness. Just get the activity started, sit back, and enjoy the chaos.
http://yeoresources.org/Documents/Files/Barnga.pdf
